This takes place before she burned all her hair off. The description had Drogo alive and by her side so I had to place the scene in the first book. She does look a bit older then she should. She should be around 14ish and possibly pregnant. It would have made more sense for the scene to take place after the first book (short hair, no Drogo, etc) since it is more his horde then hers at this point in time.